<DIV id=mainNewsTitles>( N2 l( K R4 Y, {
<H1>紅杏出墻是真愛嗎?</H1></DIV>
8 H8 B7 y1 i! M) v9 R* {<DIV class=contentbox>0 ~; p* o |( H# W7 {' I, ^$ K/ ~
<DIV class=mainNewsInfo><SPAN id=mainFontSize><A style="POSITION: relative; CURSOR: hand" title=減小字體 onclick="newasp_fontsize(0,'mainNewsContent')"><IMG border=0 src="/images/1.gif" width=15 height=15><FONT color=#ff6600>減小字體</FONT></A> <A style="POSITION: relative; CURSOR: hand" title=增大字體 onclick="newasp_fontsize(1,'mainNewsContent')"><IMG border=0 src="/images/2.gif" width=15 height=15><FONT color=#ff6600>增大字體</FONT></A> </SPAN>作者:佚名 來源:<A href="http://www.souod.com"><FONT color=#810081>搜得健康網(wǎng)搜集整理</FONT></A> 發(fā)布時間:2009-07-14 01:27:46</DIV>
# C% A5 K$ k! K* n1 X: b; }<DIV style="FLOAT: right">& k- d" R; F n/ d
<SCRIPT src="/article/js/336.js"></SCRIPT>
, V+ Z. H# s" _2 C
7 F4 d' f, z6 j' w<SCRIPT type=text/javascript><!--. r) Q, x! X% i. p& R
google_ad_client = "pub-3089989272988309";
% @$ z( c) U+ D5 N; {/* 336x280, 創(chuàng)建于 08-10-9 */0 _2 S1 D u: I/ E6 g/ x
google_ad_slot = "7545507005";3 W! {4 r5 D7 G! M1 r0 p W; K
google_ad_width = 336;
; ?( b# |" s, t. u7 ugoogle_ad_height = 280;! {/ X: _; d% k4 x* K
//-->
( _) o. a2 d2 y* O8 B; ]; o+ N N0 w4 }</SCRIPT>2 T. F4 \1 M3 ^+ O9 L- | B
8 @* I# U8 |! W<SCRIPT type=text/javascript src="http://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/show_ads.js">( Y& v+ X) [" e1 K' l. u& j
, I& D3 ]9 i$ o3 v+ A* }</SCRIPT>
% |% d* v4 J% o* G* Y1 G& }' L1 K0 N
<SCRIPT src="http://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/expansion_embed.js"></SCRIPT>
! {& i) T$ R2 y
- T1 Z8 h, m# C, H8 m<SCRIPT src="http://googleads.g.doubleclick.net/pagead/test_domain.js"></SCRIPT>
; {+ F) @% C& X; F
+ I( L4 Y8 ?9 z j<SCRIPT src="http://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/render_ads.js"></SCRIPT>+ N- ]+ l: u5 `! c& t5 h
# S' f; _7 w! \& s3 r* R6 O<SCRIPT>google_protectAndRun("render_ads.js::google_render_ad", google_handleError, google_render_ad);</SCRIPT>) }6 V/ i: u! |0 M
<INS style="BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; POSITION: relative; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; WIDTH: 336px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline-table; HEIGHT: 280px; VISIBILITY: visible; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><INS style="BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; POSITION: relative; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; WIDTH: 336px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 280px; VISIBILITY: visible; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><IFRAME style="POSITION: absolute; TOP: 0px; LEFT: 0px" id=google_ads_frame1 height=280 marginHeight=0 src="http://googleads.g.doubleclick.net/pagead/ads?client=ca-pub-3089989272988309&dt=1247506196591&lmt=1247506196&output=html&slotname=7545507005&correlator=1247506196591&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.souod.com%2Farticle%2Fshow.asp%3Fid%3D2387&ref=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.souod.com%2Farticle%2Flist.asp%3Fclassid%3D16%26order%3D0%26page%3D3&frm=0&ga_vid=224148968.1247506197&ga_sid=1247506197&ga_hid=1540045404&flash=10.0.22.87&w=336&h=280&u_h=768&u_w=1024&u_ah=738&u_aw=1024&u_cd=32&u_tz=480&u_his=34&u_java=true&dtd=40&xpc=IDbgrwZ27f&p=http%3A//www.souod.com" frameBorder=0 width=336 allowTransparency name=google_ads_frame marginWidth=0 scrolling=no></IFRAME></INS></INS></DIV>4 W- }/ ?8 `* D* L
<DIV id=mainNewsContent class="mainNewsContent NewsContent"><TR><TD style="PADDING-TOP: 10px" class=td_24 width="660">女人出軌原因很多,但無論如何,在動心之前要好好想一想:自己擁有的家庭真的不再是你的最愛了嗎?你與“他”的外遇是真愛還是寂寞的彌補(bǔ)?不要把錯覺當(dāng)成真愛,否則,你會掉入一個更黑的深淵。 * R7 }; L8 W- ^, x# M5 U* f2 f' w9 x; I% a
<P> 當(dāng)今社會,不少婚姻變得十分脆弱,似乎有點(diǎn)不堪一擊。兩個曾海誓山盟的心愛之人,竟在不經(jīng)意中“紅杏出墻”。男人有外遇還理直氣壯,女人也要找出正當(dāng)?shù)睦碛?,為求心安理得。女人?qiáng)迫自己相信,自己是為“愛”才跟“他”外遇的。</P>3 _; p) d( h5 z; C/ z8 u+ d, s
<P> 因?yàn)閷ΜF(xiàn)代大多數(shù)女性來說,只要因愛出軌就沒有關(guān)系,為“性”或?yàn)槠渌虺鲕壥遣豢稍彽摹E藢橐龅钠谕且愿星榈臐M足為準(zhǔn)則的,她們渴望被關(guān)心及愛護(hù)。而在我們的社會教育中,男性是不可以輕易流露感情的,也就是說,男人表達(dá)心中的感受并不是一件容易的事。有道是“男兒有淚不輕彈”。男人在感情上不善于溝通是女人最大的失望。所以,不能滿足這種渴求,日積月累,這種被忽略的情緒就會爆發(fā)。當(dāng)一位男性在此時對她表現(xiàn)出關(guān)心及傾慕時,女人往往會錯把感激當(dāng)成愛而出軌,因?yàn)椤八弊屇阌X得自己被重視,有人愛,又回復(fù)了美麗、性感。</P>9 B: h- A9 @0 g# f
<P> 女人與男人體會的是兩個完全不同的世界。男人可以把性與愛分得清清楚楚,女人卻不能。當(dāng)女人與伴侶兩情相悅時便會有靈肉合一的沖動,日久生情,產(chǎn)生依戀情結(jié)。性讓女人有愛的錯覺。即使女人當(dāng)初只是為“性”外遇,而不是為“愛”,但只要不斷與性伴侶發(fā)生關(guān)系,這種依戀的情愫便會逐漸滋長,最終使女人認(rèn)為有“愛”。</P>
( h. f: r# S0 E3 i3 R: E<P> 當(dāng)一個女人婚姻出現(xiàn)危機(jī)時,會如饑似渴地希望找到另一伴侶來填補(bǔ)空虛和惶恐。充滿新鮮刺激并且無拘無束的外遇,會令她們仿佛重回少女時代。這時的女性往往分不清是激情還是真愛。</P>0 t3 l) L9 p. L8 `
<P> 婚姻其實(shí)是一種“習(xí)慣”,要維持這種“習(xí)慣”并使之不能有“惰”性,是一個很難掌握的尺度。在婚姻中“永遠(yuǎn)擁有”如果不被“熟視無睹”、“無須重視”所取代,那么,婚姻也許會像憧憬的一樣美好。無論男人和女人,都要警惕婚姻中的惰性,相互溝通、充滿激情才會維系彼此的吸引。 </P><A href="http://www.souod.com/"><FONT color=#810081><搜得健康網(wǎng),專業(yè)健康知識分享,為你健康保駕護(hù)航></FONT></A>
: S* J J% h+ Z6 y3 h( p" I$ ^<SCRIPT src="/article/js/46860.js"></SCRIPT>
4 I% G9 A) O+ f& Z4 v& I4 G- f4 X' M# ?2 |4 O* k) L! C" @; U
<SCRIPT type=text/javascript><!--
5 R1 }7 s9 F3 Vgoogle_ad_client = "pub-3089989272988309";
9 x( ]) z, `* k& X- b3 G: D, G/* 468x60, 創(chuàng)建于 08-10-9 */
; b3 f4 j" S3 p8 v$ |' Xgoogle_ad_slot = "5620457112";
i+ ?; U0 y+ s# S9 T2 }5 n7 j$ V9 @google_ad_width = 468;2 Q Z! R# @/ D; M' P. [( r
google_ad_height = 60;0 T% X! s6 s! ] r" I
//-->/ H5 n9 S+ p' l1 B& _( E
</SCRIPT>
! D( i [0 n. i7 P: ~2 R3 u, \ W& B3 S; f1 \0 M' `* B. ~, S
<SCRIPT type=text/javascript src="http://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/show_ads.js"># a4 s h$ T3 L" a2 T d6 {; D
</SCRIPT>0 ^5 h! F. L" m! G* y5 T- {3 q
0 H3 D- |5 `1 X6 N! f3 f: x8 ~<SCRIPT>google_protectAndRun("ads_core.google_render_ad", google_handleError, google_render_ad);</SCRIPT> A" r! p, ?# ?9 {
<INS style="BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; POSITION: relative; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; WIDTH: 468px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; DISPLAY: inline-table; HEIGHT: 60px; VISIBILITY: visible; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><INS style="BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; POSITION: relative; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; WIDTH: 468px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 60px; VISIBILITY: visible; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-TOP: 0px"><IFRAME style="POSITION: absolute; TOP: 0px; LEFT: 0px" id=google_ads_frame2 height=60 marginHeight=0 src="http://googleads.g.doubleclick.net/pagead/ads?client=ca-pub-3089989272988309&dt=1247506196661&lmt=1247506196&prev_slotnames=7545507005&output=html&slotname=5620457112&correlator=1247506196591&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.souod.com%2Farticle%2Fshow.asp%3Fid%3D2387&ref=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.souod.com%2Farticle%2Flist.asp%3Fclassid%3D16%26order%3D0%26page%3D3&frm=0&ga_vid=224148968.1247506197&ga_sid=1247506197&ga_hid=1540045404&flash=10.0.22.87&w=468&h=60&u_h=768&u_w=1024&u_ah=738&u_aw=1024&u_cd=32&u_tz=480&u_his=34&u_java=true&dtd=10&xpc=1gZwTd4EGv&p=http%3A//www.souod.com" frameBorder=0 width=468 allowTransparency name=google_ads_frame marginWidth=0 scrolling=no></IFRAME></INS></INS></DIV></DIV> |